Melamela, 46

Are there any real men out there? I know a lot of guys brag about being the the real thing, but they turn out to be frauds. This is my attempt to find something solid and true about in person. I am a woman with great qualities. I see absolutely nothing wrong with bending over backwards and going that extra mile for the man in my life...but it seems like a lot of men are all for the taking and have nothing to add. I'm all for couples enriching eachothers lives and loving unselfishly. Do I think I'll find that here?....Honestly, no. But as long as my heart beats, I will remain optimistic.